If it wasn't for the sufferings Siddhartha saw, Budhha would not have happened!
If Gandhi wasn't thrown out of the train, Mahatma would not have happened!
If Sachin was scared of criticism and had stopped playing, a Legend would not have happened!

World may not always be fair...Some bad people may exist around……but don't protect me too much Dad,

I might have to fall sometimes, to rise for a better cause...
I might have to fight some elements, to win over at the end...
I might have to face some turbulence to find my world of peace...

for that to happen I have to enter the ground, because I desire to win...

burdens....

I feel less burdened when I don't think of who should talk first...
I feel less burdened when I just work and don't care about the credit...
I feel less burdened when I think that everyone's intention is good...

God is intelligent..
He gave us eyes but left the vision for us to find..
gave this life and became an observant..

to be continued..lol

Infinite waiting...

Throughout our life knowingly or unknowingly, we keep waiting for the right moment to come, sometimes it comes but sometimes it just doesn't !!

One moment of victory in world cup and everyone forgets who is who…. Then a moment of celebration begins, people hug each other, they clap, they dance, they scream…

Wait for an earthquake or bomb blast, we see flesh around us and then realize we shouldn’t fight but love….

Wait!!! Wait until my career settles down and then I will find some time for love…..

Wait for a holiday to call a friend, wait for the day when old parents are unwell and then go talk to them !!

wait for promotion to talk with your hostile team mate....Wait for a good mood for a smile to come on your face…..

Wait for death to come and then start realizing what life is…

Why wait for a moment to realize we are all the same, made to help each other!!

Truth is not always comforting in fact truth makes you feel uncomfortable most of the times...Swami Vivekananda
I got this message from dad, and that leaves me with a question, whether shall we be truthful or we shouldn't..Today I am standing at a point where if I say truth I will be hurting someone, there is another way of saying things but that isn't the truth and that will leave the person brokenhearted...which path do I chose?

Free thought, without a proper thought process; recipe for self destruction...wow Rachita, I dint really realized the power of these words at the moment I read them but I do now !!

I wanted to put this caption on fb, but dint "Hello, you are given one tiny organ in your head, use it!!!" Really how much of it do we really use..how much of it is worth using...if its not worth then why do we have it... and why am I thinking of these questions now...most importantly because I am not happy with the kind of work I am doing..If I am not happy with it, why am I doing it..for money..awe why am I doing this..

Really don't want to come out as a negative thinker, need to find out new paths new directions.....hey hey hey...I realized something, I am coming out with stuff like that, because I am not really thinking before writing it..My hands are hitting some keys but I really doubt if they are synchronized with my mind..

ok, lets write something meaningful....haha..is anyone here to write meaningful stuff..back off back off sheetal,riding the same road again...

so dint want to make this blog personnel but doesn't sound bad to me if I write about my thoughts on the things going on and I must if I can make it a habit....

You dream of certain things, certain type of life for yourself….. and then you fall for people who have it ! Thoughtless desperation does not take you anywhere, if you dream of something. Understand why you want it, and if getting that thing will make you feel really good, then generate that capacity in yourself to accept it. It will automatically come to you, and then you will never hate yourself that you fell for someone who never had time to realize how much importance he held in your life !


Its amazing how a tiny organ in our head can create such huge world !!!

Gift of womanhood..(Entry under catagory of Relationship Issues)

Whatever you give a woman, she makes it greater. Give her sperm, she will give you a baby.Give her a house, she will give you a home.Give her groceries, she will give you a meal. Give her a smile and she will give you her heart.She multiplies and enlarges what she is given...Heard these lines from one of my friends and I couldn't have had a better start than this.

I was wondering which woman should I start this post with, shall I start with some of the most influential women in the world or the women who suffer a lot and do not have opportunities..and suddenly a thought came to my mind..what would have happened if Taliban was operated by women, I wonder if it had even existed....A community run by women where men are not allowed to do anything without their support..where men would be beaten up or even be killed if they don't follow their women....and women will make passes on men..women would rape men to satisfy their lust....eweew can't think of anything more bizarre than this.

I am trying to remember all the women who made impressions on me right from my childhood, the kind of impressions that enter in your mind once and last for lifetime. When I think more I realize that those impressions are not made by the physical appearance those women had nor because of the money they earned but because of their capability of loving others in spite knowing their faults, they were beautiful because of their power of tolerance.

Let me start with my primary teacher, we called her Aaji.She ran a school for kids. The school which was more like a home.She came to receive us everyday and actually held any of us in her hands. If we answer correctly, we received chocolates and a kiss.She was one woman who resolved many family problems in our town.

Years later when she died, I came to know that her husband had abandoned her for some other woman, and her son whom she educated in all hardships, left her for his wife. I don't remember a single day when she complained about any of her problems to us, not even a day when she was sad. The only thing she taught us was the joy of giving and being happy.

She donated her body to a medical college, not because she knew there is no one to do her funeral but because she had understood life is lot more than complaining over people.

Next story I can think of is my neighbor, her husband is a doctor and they have a kid of 5 years old.Recently her husband's brother had moved in their apartment, he fell sick quiet often. One day they tested him for HIV and it came positive. Everyone was taken aback, and suddenly she started observing change in her husband's behavior. He stopped sleeping with her and started being aloof for no reason. And one day he brought an injection and took her blood sample.

The injection was for testing if she is carrying HIV virus, that was the moment she understood that he was suspecting her. She left him, stayed at her parent's for two months. He did not call, instead her parents convinced her to go back. And now they are together.

For both the families it is a happy ending, nobody asked, what it is for her.

Sometimes its a soldier's wife who doesn't go to the battlefield yet has a battle of uncertainty everyday. The soldier dies fighting enemy, but she has a battle of life to fight.Sometimes its an ordinary mother who quits her job for the future of her kids.

I have known many women handling different roles in different relationships. Some strong, some weak.Some who compromise over situation, some who fight for their individuality. When I think of all of them, the only thing that differentiates between strong and weak is their power of making decisions and conviction to follow them.

I know many women who complain, because they are not liked enough by others, they feel its because they are not beautiful. They end up compromising their values to spend some time with a man, and are left at alter once the night is over.

Why let some men or society always make decisions for you, why not ask your self what it wants. Lets not murder our self esteem in the name of compromise, also lets not deny our capability of making love happen. Be strong, be yourself. Be the woman who realizes that her beauty lies beyond her physical appearance. Who loves passionately but is also capable of breaking bonds when is taken for granted.

We are blessed to have this gift, the gift of womanhood !!!




I would like to tag three of my friends

Bharti: http://pagesfromotherside.blogspot.com/
Rachita: http://www.way2rachita.blogspot.com
Jitendra: http://life-through-a-prism.blogspot.com/